The recent public act of contrition by social media personality Awikonko, who went to meet the Alaafin, prostrated and sincerely sought forgiveness for defamatory videos he had previously published, is both humbling and instructive. His decision to make amends after causing public misrepresentation is a powerful reminder of what it means to be a true Omolúàbí — a well-raised and responsible Yoruba individual.

The concept of Omolúàbí is central to Yoruba culture. It emphasises truthfulness (otító), respect for elders, humility, decency in speech, and a commitment to harmony. In an age where social media allows for rapid and unchecked dissemination of opinions, assumptions, and at times misinformation, we must remember that character matters, both online and offline.

Awikonko’s apology to the Alaafin is not just a personal matter; it is a public lesson. The Alaafin’s forgiveness, offered graciously and publicly, reflects mature leadership and the deep cultural value Yoruba people place on reconciliation, forgiveness, and peaceful coexistence. But it also reminds us that words — especially those said in public or published online — have consequences.

To all social media users, especially young Yoruba content creators:Let this be a call to uphold integrity, verify facts, and respect traditional institutions. Being bold does not mean being reckless. Critique is not the same as slander, and freedom of speech must walk hand-in-hand with responsibility. Not everything we see or hear online is the truth; we must always seek the facts before forming opinions.

Let us continue to foster a culture of respect, truth, and unity — these are values our ancestors cherished, and they remain relevant even in this digital age. As Yoruba people, and as a nation, we are stronger when we act with wisdom, restraint, and dignity.

May this incident be a reminder that the path to greatness lies in truth, humility, and honour. Dr Ademola Adeleke,writes from United Kingdom.